Firstsitenews-Veteran Nollywood actress Tina Mbah has sent a powerful message to her fellow actors, especially women, urging them not to sacrifice their passion for acting in the name of marriage. In an emotionally charged interview on Lights, Camera – It’s My Turn, the respected actress opened up about the pressure many women face to give up their careers for domestic life, insisting that no one should have to choose between love and purpose.
Drawing from her own experience, the mother of two revealed how she managed to maintain a successful acting career without compromising her personal life. She stressed that one of the biggest mistakes anyone can make is ignoring early red flags from a partner who might not support their professional journey. According to her, many women step into marriage expecting support, only to be faced with ultimatums and emotional manipulation.
“He met you as an actor. He married you knowing you’re an actor. Then suddenly after marriage, he expects you to drop everything because he feels insecure or thinks you need to raise children? That’s not how it works,” Mbah stated.
She advised women in the industry to have clear, honest conversations about their careers before saying "I do." In her words, “If necessary, get your partner to sign an agreement that your career is off-limits — that no matter what happens, you won’t be forced to leave it behind. After all, he didn’t quit his job, did he?”
Tina Mbah also touched on the societal pressure to endure unsupportive marriages, reminding her colleagues that being true to themselves is more important than clinging to a relationship that stifles their dreams. “Marriage is important, yes, but nobody put a gun to your head. If it doesn’t work, it doesn’t work. There are billions of people in the world. The right person will support your passion.”
She concluded with a touch of humor and pride, encouraging others to embrace their individuality: “Don’t fall for surface dazzle. Be an antique babe like me — rare, strong, and unapologetically true to yourself.”
Her bold and inspiring words have sparked conversations across social media, with fans and fellow actors praising her for championing self-worth and creative freedom in an industry that often forces women to choose.
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